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DEER
ISLE - Lael Swinney Stegall died peacefully Oct. 25, 2011, surrounded by loved
ones at home, one year after her first symptoms of pancreatic cancer. During
that year, as in the 70 preceding it, Lael led the charge, delivered life
lessons, gained admiration and devotion, and called the shots through
treatment options and clinical trials. To complete her journey, she chose
hospice care with family and friends in Sunshine, Deer Isle. Lael was a
mother, wife, political activist, campaigner for human rights, strategist and
organizer for the empowerment of women, and mentor to all who encountered her
in Europe - East and West - Asia, Africa, North America and the Middle East.
In recent years she used her own consulting practice, Social Change
International, to help environmental and women's advocacy groups in Maine, and
UNIFEM - the United Nations organization - in its global outreach. Among the
greatest pleasures of these Maine years were being the sternman on Joanne
Heanssler's lobster boat, gardening with help from the master gardner programs
and serving Opera House Arts, Stonington, as board chair and in other rolls.
She has received countless honors, citations and recognitions during her
massively productive lifetime, but none more fun than being Ms. December in
the Lobster Women's Calendar of Maine in 2004. A close second, however, was
introducing candidate Barak Obama to the largest political rally in Maine
history at the Bangor Auditorium in 2008. Tireless social service was learned
by Lael and her brother, Dan Swinney of Chicago, from their parents, Olive and
Daniel Dean Swinney Jr. Her parents came to Washington from the School of
Social Work at the University of Chicago, and served in Roosevelt's new
Employment Administration before entering the international public health and
social housing professions as dedicated civil servants. Their son, Dan, became
a nationally known community organizer and educational reformer in the midwest.
Lael also earned her Master of Social Work degree at the University of Chicago
and helped found the first school of social work in Turkey as a Peace Corps
Volunteer in the mid-1960s. As a student at Maine's Colby College, she had
attended a midnight airport rally to hear candidate John Kennedy discuss his
plans for starting the Peace Corps, and committed herself on the spot. It was
in Turkey that she met her husband, Ron Stegall, who worked there for CARE,
Inc. They became engaged a week later. Lael helped to found the National
Women's Political Caucus in 1973 and served as its development director until
1979. She is rumored to be the model for "Joanie Caucus," of the Gary Treudeax
comic strip. In 1980 Lael helped Ellen Malcolm form the Windom Fund and served
eight years as its executive director, supporting voting rights, gender
equality and women's empowerment. Those efforts gave rise to Emily's List, a
singularly effective fundraising machine for progressive women candidates for
political office. In the Carter Administration, Lael served as Advisor on
Women in Development to Peace Corps director Richard Celeste, where she
created the first Women in Development program aiding volunteer activities
around the world. She worked on U.S. Agency for International Development
programs to assist women in Sri Lanka, Thailand and Indonesia. The Clinton
Administration Transition Team asked her to help find outstanding women for
political appointments. In 1988 Lael was a co-founder of Communications
Consortium Media Center, a pioneering nonprofit strategic communications firm
devoted to gaining media attention for important social issues. She
spearheaded organizing and media work for several women's rights efforts at
international conferences, including the successful drive to get women's
rights declared human rights at the 1993 United Nations Human Rights
Conference in Vienna. With co-director, Jill Benderly, she founded the
Strategy, Training, Advocacy and Resources Network in 1993 during the Balkan
Wars. STAR flourished for more than a decade, assisting thousands of women in
Bosnia, Serbia, Croatia, Macedonia and Kosovo. It garnered millions of U.S.
government and private dollars to establish micro-credit programs and
opportunities for women to reach across ethnic and religious barriers to
advance peace, economic development and political access. The Stegall family
has been overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support from around the
world during this difficult year. Churches across Deer Isle and across the
country have joined synagogues, mosques, Hindu temples, Roman Catholic
monasteries, Russian and Serbian Orthodox congregations and countless
individuals at various places, on and off their spiritual journeys, to focus
on Lael's challenges. It reflects her inclusive spirit and dedication to
others ... "the way life should be!" Their two children also chose service
careers: Shana Cousins is a veterinary technician and lives in Sedgwick with
her husband, John Cousins Jr., a Maine forest ranger. Skyler Stegall is a
federal law enforcement officer headquartered in Washington. Other surviving
family including Dan's wife, Pam, daughter, Erica and son, Brett; cousins,
stepgrandchildren, "chosen relatives" and international students, who have
become family, gather regularly in Deer Isle. A memorial service will be held
2 p.m. Nov. 19 at St. Brendon the Navigator Episcopal Church, Deer Isle, and
Feb. 11, 2012, at St. Marks Episcopal Church, Washington, D.C.
Published in Bangor Daily News on October 29, 2011
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